For every relationship that matters
Closer, on purpose.
Answer thoughtful questions in private. Reveal together — only when you've both shared. One mutual reveal is enough to feel the difference: honesty without peeking, built into how the product works, not just promised in the app.
Free for the core experience. Safety always free. Premium ($18/mo) is optional for Blueprint and digests.
Today's question
“When do you feel most appreciated by me?”
You
When you notice the small stuff — like Tuesday, when you just said “I saw how hard that was.”
Them
How it works
Three small habits. One closer relationship.
Invite your person
One link, one tap. Partner, friend, sibling, parent, teammate — every connection gets its own private space.
Answer in private
A daily question and deeper packs, written for your kind of relationship. Designed so neither of you can peek early — built into the product, not just promised.
Reveal together
Both answered? Everything unlocks side by side, with a place to talk about it. That moment is the whole point.
Grounded in research
Questions are informed by research traditions like Gottman and attachment theory, and the science of closeness — with weaker ideas flagged honestly.
Cradle to grave
New love, new parents, teens, caring for aging parents, grief — packs for the seasons most apps pretend don't exist.
Streaks that forgive
A daily rhythm worth keeping, without the guilt mechanics. Miss a day? Life happens. Pick it back up.
Private by architecture
The reveal rule is built into how the product works — designed so answers stay private until both share. Your words are yours to export or erase.
A library worth reading
Short, evidence-rated reads — the four horsemen, bids for connection, grieving differently — free where it matters most.
Safety, never paywalled
Crisis resources are free for everyone, always free and easy to reach, with a quick-exit button when privacy matters.
The whole arc
Built for seasons, not just sparks
New love
start with 20 questions
New parents
protect the friendship
Growing teens
trust, not surveillance
Caring for parents
share the load
Grief & endings
remember together
Good questions
Before you start
Can the other person see my answer before I share mine?
No — and it's not just a promise in the app. The rule that hides an answer until you've both responded is built into how the product works, designed so answers stay private until you've both shared. You answer first, then you both see everything at once.
Is this therapy?
No. Relationship Copilot offers relationship-wellness and coaching-style prompts grounded in research, but it isn't therapy, counseling, or medical advice, and it never diagnoses. If you're in crisis, our Safety page lists free, confidential support — always free and easy to reach.
What happens to what I write — and what does the AI see?
Your words are yours: you can export everything as JSON or delete your account anytime. We don't sell your data. The optional AI features send only the relevant answers — with names, emails, and phone numbers stripped out first — to generate a reflection for you, and that text isn't used to train models.
Is it really free?
The core experience — every relationship type, the onboarding questions, daily prompts, reveals, discussions, and the core library — is free. Premium ($18/mo) adds the AI Blueprint and weekly digests. Safety resources are never behind the paywall.
Is it only for couples?
No. It's built for the whole arc of a relationship — romantic partners, friends, family, siblings, coworkers, mentors, and a trust-first parent–teen track. Each connection gets its own private space.
What if I'm in an unsafe relationship?
Safety comes first and free. The app screens for signs of harm and, when it sees them, withholds AI output and surfaces support resources instead. There's a quick-exit button on the Safety page, and we never notify the other person when you view resources or leave a connection.
Who built this?
Relationship Copilot is an independent product founded by Patrick Novak in Vancouver. Learn more on our About page.
The people you love are one question away.
Start free. Invite one person. See what you learn about each other by Friday.